Why I didn't buy you a drink.

dailyhuff:

lacienegajustsmiled:

some ladies really need to read this. and, sidebar, i don’t really understand how posting on craigslist works, and wound up emailing the guy who posted it, rather than posting a reply. which was awkward, bc he emailed back and said he was going out tonight. yikes. i wasn’t trying to hit on you, dude. just appreciating that you’re not an asshat in ed hardy trying to harass me when i’m just trying to enjoy my makers manhattan.

The dude you e-mailed is probably just a douche in general who copied and pasted someone else’s stuff into a post as a way to bait… someone, I guess.

This was intriguing until I got to the end and read about how much he pitied the “big girl.” Fuck you, asshole. Who do you think you are?

I never expected drinks from anyone. Honestly, if I’d ever met a guy at a bar who didn’t seem interested in playing that game, I would have given him my number in a heart beat. The truth is, most guys do think it’s that easy, and I had a lot of friends who played along with the game. Girls who aren’t opportunistic whores don’t. And they don’t hang out at bars trying to meet guys, either.

But seriously, taking pity on the “big girl”? “I introduced her to an open-minded friend.” Really? Does it really take that much open-mindedness to imagine hooking up with a girl who doesn’t fit the stereotypical mold of hotness? So you lead her on, use her to piss off the skank you’d been chatting up, and then pawn her off on your friend. You never even consider, I don’t know, having a conversation with her to see if maybe she’s cooler than her friend. Because no. There’s no way you could ever hit it off with a “big girl.”

News flash, asshole: buying the “big girl” a drink just to piss off her friend won’t make her night. It’s only going to hurt her feelings when she realizes you’re using her.

Ugh. What a jerk. It’s amazing he’s still single. Good luck getting one of the skanks you’re chasing to give you the time of day if you don’t have money to spend.